“Things your problem drinker doesn’t want you to know”

September 30, 2010 on 12:05 pm | In Law, abuse, alcoholics, alcoholism, binge drinking, codependent, domestic abuse, drinking, drugs, drunk, elder drinking, marijuana, police, probation, recovery, underage drinking | 1 Comment

I don’t know how I survived in my drunken world.  Everything around me was crumbling.  Alcoholism is a fatal illness in more ways than one.  When someone you know appears to have a drinking problem,” I mean no disrespect when I say, “Run as fast as you can and don’t look back!!”  That is number one. 

Once you’ve had the requisite “talk” and he/she says he/she will do something about it, that’s when you (2) must demand to know exactly what he/she intends to do to stop drinking.  Of course, unbeknownst to you, he/she may, at first, go underground wi th his/her drinking.  So there will likely be more out-of-town business trips, for secret drinking.  No one will know.  No harm no foul, right? When you find out, you break-up, (3) or threaten to.  Year in and year out, that will be the scenario you’ll exist under.  (refer to number one recommendation)

The alcoholic is very crafty and will give you a variety of reasons causing him/her to drink.  Job pressure usually tops the list.  “It’s just a passing phase; I’ll cut back, maybe if I find a job in some other town, I’ll be okay.”  Greener pastures.  The alcoholic is constantly tries to outrun his self, but when he/she gets to the greener pasture, the old drunk shows up.

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